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Congratulations! You’ve been promoted into a manager …

You've made it! Or at least that's the common perception in our society. When you head home for the winter holidays, your relatives might still not understand what you do, but at least they'll be impressed that you've got some people β€œworking for you.”

So why is that? Why does society place such a value on management? It comes down to power and compensation. Management is associated with calling the shots and, quite often, a higher salary.

In themselves, these aren't great reasons to become a manager though. Associating management with higher compensation and prestige causes a whole host of problems (which we'll get into later) and, once you've been doing it for a while, you'll realize that the best managers let their team make the decisions. Sure, they act as a tiebreaker every now and again, but their team should be driving things.

Management requires wearing many different hats. Some days you're the recruiter, some days the coach, some days the conflict resolver, and some days the tiebreaker. If you can become great at all these things, then the score will take care of itself. Your team will perform, and you will feel a lot of satisfaction from watching them fly.

It's not a promotion, it's a career change

Associating management with higher compensation is a classic trap companies fall into. It changes all the incentives for individual contributors (ICs) who want to further their careers. Now, rather than doubling down on their strengths, they reluctantly move β€œupward” into management to gain a promotion. What often happen next is you end up losing a great IC and gaining a mediocre manager. Not good!

At Clearbit, there is no such thing as a β€œpromotion” into management. It's a distinct career change. And like any other profession, management requires years of training and practice to get good at it.

You'll notice this is reflected across our compensation structure. We have two parallel tracks for individual contributors and managers, with clear levels and goals. It's quite possible that the ICs on your team are making more money than you; that design is intentional.

What does it mean to be a manager at Clearbit?

Technically speaking, the role of the manager is to drive output by organizing and facilitating people and processes to accomplish a goal.

However, that's such a dry way of looking at the subject. Management is an art, precisely because we humans are such complex creatures. At its heart, management is an act of service. Great managers coach, teach, and inspire their team to become the best versions of themselves.

Management is not for everyone. If you don't thrive on solving people problems, then it's probably not for you. And that's completely fine; being an individual contributor is just as valuable as being a manager.

So why become a manager? We think there are two core reasons:

  1. Finding joy in the leverage of a high-performing team. If you're doing a good job as a manager, then your team will perform well and achieve things much greater than you alone could accomplish. There's something quite beautiful about a well-functioning team.
  2. Finding joy in your team's personal growth. Helping individuals on your team find their zone of genius, coaching them, and watching them grow into their full potentialβ€”these are all highly rewarding things to be a part of.

As a manager, you now have a responsibility to improve people's lives, career growth, and general happiness. You can have a big impact on how their lives pan out, for better or worse. Great managers realize the importance of the role they play but are humble enough to bask only in their team's success.

The paradox of management

The paradox of management is that the attitude that got you to that position isn’t the attitude that will make you successful at it. In fact, the opposite is true. If you try to manage people in the same way as you produced work as an individual contributor, you will fail.

What made you successful as an IC? Probably some combination of hard work and domain expertise. So, when you encounter problems as a freshly minted manager, it can be all too easy to put your IC hat back on and fix them yourself. At Clearbit, we call this β€œheroing.” Sometimes it's necessary, but it's always unsustainable in the long term.

You have to switch focus from yourself to others because you’re no longer measured on your output. It’s now about the output of your organization.


How management is different from leadership

The terms β€œmanagement” and β€œleadership” are often used interchangeably, but they are actually two distinct things. In short, management is tactical and leadership is strategic.

Management requires dealing with the day-to-day realities of hiring and aligning people, such as one-on-ones, performance reviews, planning meetings, goal check-ins, etc. Leadership means looking forward, compounding value, connecting dots, taking cues from outside the organization, and talking to customers to come up with a vision that you can communicate to the rest of the company.

Almost every management position involves some degree of leadership. As you rise through the organization, the management-leadership time allocation ratio changes in favor of leadership. Senior executives are mostly responsible for managing themselves and hitting their targets, while CEOs are mostly responsible for being leaders. This doesn't mean that leadership is more valuable than management; both functions are critical.


Keith Rabois has written an excellent piece on what it means to be a leader that we have reprinted in full in the appendix: What does it mean to be an executive?

Why you’ll likely fail to scale as a manager

A startup is defined as a small company that scales with unnaturally high growth. As the company expands, it requires different types of talent, and it's an all-too-common occurrence for the company's growth rate to outstrip yours. When that happens, you can get β€œleveled”: a senior manager with more experience is recruited above you.

This can be bruising to the ego, but quite honestly, it shouldn't be. Practically no one is capable of consistently scaling themselves at these speeds. Rather than taking it personally, you should realize this isn't a zero sum game. Adding some new amazing VP above you will only give you more opportunities to grow, lift us all up, and expand the pie.

There is only one way to delay or avoid being leveled, and that is through self-growth. It requires deep introspection, which means being honest with yourself about your strengths and weaknesses, seeking feedback, and being committed to improving. This can be painful, and since our natural instinct is to avoid pain, we often put self-imposed caps on our personal growth … which results in being leveled.

Don't panic

This all might sound like a lot to take on, and it is! Being someone's manager is a big responsibility and it's important to get it right. However, remember that every great manager you admire once started out right where you are: as an individual contributor who moved into management. With training, practice, and the right attitude, you will get there. And Clearbit will be alongside you, supporting you every step of the way.

This handbook

Let’s highlight the skills necessary to be a great manager before digging into each one in more detail throughout the rest of the handbook.

Managing yourself

As they say on planes, you should affix your own mask before helping others. The same goes for management. You need to be healthy, present, and emotionally stable before you can support others.

In Chapter 1, we’ll delve into how best to manage your time (your most precious resource), how to create work-life harmony to ensure that you are mentally and physically fit, and how to take radical responsibility for your own life and happiness.

Hiring and onboarding

Every manager at Clearbit is responsible for building out their team. This means that every manager also needs to be a world-class recruiter, from sourcing to evaluating and closing candidates. In Chapter 2, we’ll discuss how we approach this.

Coaching and feedback

When it comes to working with individuals, we prefer to think of managers as coaches. Great coaches help their trainees grow into the best versions of themselves by holding them accountable, giving them critical feedback, and supporting them through challenges.

In Chapter 3, we’ll explore coaching and feedback. We’ll look at how to run an effective one-on-one, how to give and receive feedback, and how to create accountability.

Working as a team

Effective collaboration involves running useful meetings and making good decisions. It also involves people trusting each other, especially around keeping their commitments.

In Chapter 4, we explore how impeccable agreements work, the different types of decision making, and how to collaborate remotely.

Creating and achieving goals

Once you have the right team in place, it's your responsibility to align goals with your team's strengths so people are operating in their zone of genius. Creativity is not an assembly line. Great managers set goals, not tasks. They have a macro-managing approach where they determine the direction, but their team drives how they get there.

In Chapter 5, we’ll talk about how to set goals, get buy-in, and delegate effectively.

Information sharing

When left unchecked, information sharing decays at an exponential rate to the size of your organization. It’s one of the hardest parts of rapidly scaling a company.

There are a number of tactics to effectively spread information and slow down the rate of dissipation, and Chapter 6 will delve into them.

Conflict resolution

Conflicts inevitably arise whenever people work together. The key is to address them head-on with conflict resolution.

Chapter 7 will present a tried and tested structure for conflict resolution through clearing conversations. You'll learn how to make people feel heard and how to navigate the Drama Triangle.

Creating culture

A good culture boils down to trust between people. While culture fermentation is more of an art than a science, we've found a number of tactics that help people bond and trust each other. Chapter 8 will elaborate on this.


The last step to becoming a world-class manager is becoming aware of your internal state, and adopting a mindset of abundance, fun and playful curiosity enabling you and your team to persevere through solving hard problems together.

In Chapter 9 we'll explore what those values mean and how to encourage them in your team.